Joseph was the second most powerful man on earth. Yet his heart was anguished because he hadn't seen his father in thirty years. Similarly, a very successful professional athlete was once asked to sum up his feelings toward his great career. He responded that his heart was heavy because his estranged father had never attended any of his games.
I often heard Fr. Al Lauer, founder of One Bread, One Body, teach that our relationship with our earthly father can impact our ability to relate to our heavenly Father. Children abused, belittled, or neglected by their earthly fathers might face a challenge even realizing God the Father loves them, much less being able to trust Him and let Him father them. Children of a loving father are likely to find it easier to trust God the Father (see Catechism, 2214).
Perhaps your father treated you horribly (see Mt 10:21). Nonetheless, forgive him and reach out to him, both for your good and for his. It may seem easier to move mountains than to move the wall between you and your father (Mt 17:20-21). Yet even if all you have is a tiny mustard seed of faith, go with the faith you have.
God turned the world's economy upside-down to restore Joseph and his father. Have faith that He can still do the same today.
PRAYER: | Father, "turn the hearts of the fathers to their children, and the hearts of the children to their fathers" (Mal 3:24). |
PROMISE: | "Take delight in the Lord, and He will grant you your heart's requests." –Ps 37:4 |
PRAISE: | St. Henry, king of Bavaria, came from a holy family. His brother became a bishop, his sister married a saint, and another sister became abbess of a monastery. Finally, his wife also became a canonized saint. |
Reprinted with permission from Presentation Ministries, a lay association of the Catholic Church that focuses on evangelization and discipleship through Bible teaching, daily Mass, the charisms of the Holy Spirit, and Small Christian Community. Their ministries include:
· One Bread, One Body
· Daily Bread Radio Program
· Annual Bible Institute
· Discipleship Retreats
· Guadalupe Bible College